Have you ever had the feeling that everywhere you look people are achieving what they set out for themselves as goals for 2017, and you just sitting back and watching others succeed right in front of you. Does this happen because you have given up on your goals or because you have been confronted with a minor setback which messed with our focus? The question is why do we look at other people when we should be focussing on ourselves. Why do we allow ourselves to be affected by